How to build business relationships in China
It is widely known relationships are key to business success in China and most westerners doing business in China understand basic cultural nuances like how to present business cards, refrain from showing emotions, give face, etc. Although the process for building relationships with Chinese is no different from how relationships develop elsewhere, finding common interests, developing rapport, showing respect, etc., in practice it is difficult due to cultural differences. Unfortunately, many foreigners doing business in China develop negative attitudes of Chinese companies and culture causing unintentionally disrespectful attitudes towards Chinese business associates. These attitudes damage relationships and jeopardize business results.
An essential skill when doing business in China is the ability to develop rapport and build relationships with Chinese associates. There is a learning curve, and these skills develop over time. Having a sincere respect for China and Chinese culture enables foreigners to overlook the small obstacles that inevitably arise when working with Chinese partners. Here are four tips that help improve the ability to build business relationships in China.
Learn Chinese history
China has a long, often bloody and interesting history. China’s past and the difficulties of previous generations has shaped Chinese culture. Chinese are very proud of their history, and many popular Chinese sitcoms are based on historical events and characters. A masters in Asian studies is not necessary to do business in China, but taking a general interest China’s history gives foreigners more respect for the country.
Chinese enjoy discussing China’s history, so a basic understanding allows foreigners to participate in conversations which helps build relationships. A good resource is A Traveller’s History of China, because it covers the complete history of China and is a quick and easy read on the flight over. This book will give you the basics to engage in an intelligent conversation about Chinese history, and increase awareness and interest in China.
Travel within China
The main cities for business in China are Shanghai, Hong Kong, Beijing, and Shenzhen, and most foreign business people in China rarely venture from these cities. If only exposed to China’s “westernized” cities, it is easy to develop an inaccurate perception of China. The heart of China is in the midsized cities and inland provinces. Taking a weekend or even week long vacation to the countryside or tourist attractions provides a different and more well rounded perspective of China. Also, business associates will often be interested to join, which will improve the relationship, and provide conversation topics for dinner banquets.
Enjoy Chinese food
Dinning is an integral part of relationship building in China. Chinese are proud of their food (as they should be, it is delicious), and in the initial stages of relationships with Chinese, food is often a topic of conversation. An open mind is necessary as the types and parts of animals Chinese enjoy eating are different from western cuisine. For the adventurous with strong stomachs, jump in and enjoy, but if offered a delicacy and the “gross factor” is to high, a polite refusal is appropriate. For example, “I tried <insert strange food name here> before and it was delicious, but unfortunately my stomach is not accustomed to Chinese food so I need to pass this time”.
Respect different political beliefs
Those from democratic counties often have an strong belief that democracy = good and communism = bad combined with strong ideals around free speech. Although conversations do not turn towards politics often in China, it is important to discuss politics diplomatically. Generally, Chinese are nationalistic and proud of their country so negative conversations regarding China’s politics may damage relationships. It is not essential to agree with Chinese government policies but and a good response to questions related to the government is, “I am impressed with the governments ability to bring so many citizens out of poverty over the past ten years and sustain such a substantial growth rate.” Remember, changes in government policies are the underling reason foreign companies are now interested in China and relationships with Chinese businesses.
Building and developing mutually beneficial relationships is essential for business success in China. As China grows and matures as a power in the worlds global economy, the ability to work with Chinese companies will become more important. Investing time in understanding China and Chinese culture increases the ability to create rapport and develop relationships. After developing a sincere respect for China and Chinese culture you will receive respect in return, creating a bridge of friendship that will lead to specific business results.
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Nice thoughts on relationship building but very very basic. I think something more nuts nd bolts with case studies and more depth would be more helpful.
Peter
17 Dec 08 at 8:08 am
Thank you Building Relationships in China are really no different than building relationships where ever you live.
Getting to know someone, become a friend, and see how you can help them is my motto.
Marge Carter
19 Dec 08 at 12:15 pm
This was nice article to read, but as Peter said “more nuts and bolts” are needed. But it is good for the beginners.
My experience about Chinese cuisine is really good, I can only say something about North-East part of it. The most important thing is not to be afraid and try to eat. If you really can not eat smth you can also say that you have allergy or you can not eat because of religion.
Jolanta
26 Dec 08 at 8:36 am
Chinese people are trying hard to please westerners, especially the client companies. Free tours, meals are their way to make people feel indebted to the offshore companies. Sometimes it amounts to bribery in the US.
Jiang
15 Jan 09 at 3:10 am
Nice post.. here are some nuts and bolts. Learn to drink rice wine, sing KTV and eat hotpot. Hotpot is a really good way to build a relationship because you spend a lot of time eating and chatting. Give and take your business card with two hands. NEVER ever be without your cards. Be super super courteous. Don’t refuse a dinner invitation and don’t refuse a drink. Look pass any bad table manners. That’s it! It’s that simple
Benny
7 Mar 09 at 12:45 am
This is an interesting and insightful article. Allow me to add another recommendation regarding doing business in China: hire a good, competent translator with expert experience in Chinese and West business practices. The services of such a professional could be your advantage in business negotiations.
Outsource Opinionist
7 Apr 09 at 2:32 pm
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пapaзит
26 May 09 at 9:39 am
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Евгений
31 May 09 at 1:04 pm
This post is very helpful in establishing good relationship. China is a country, rich in culture and history. Chinese are good in business.
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